It is much better, to drag a chain, even better to carry a big and heavy stone than her. I will tell you how she is: She likes to be called maiden, she  has very powerful weapons, is very fast, sometimes sincere sometimes a liar. How can this be?  The thing is that sometimes you allow her in, you invite her to know your rooms ( your inner world. )  Sometimes she goes away but other times, she remains. And the danger is, when she promises you her company. And what do you do? You keep on showing the best about you, until one day when you give her a tear and another day, a drop of blood and after a few days, you are left as dry as a paper, without tears and blood. She only leaves you when you can reflect all that she did to you.
She is the Sorrow.