THE  ADVICE  OF  THE  WISE  MEN


LOVE ADVICE

Let's start by saying that love is not simple but rather complex. This is not said to scare but to understand, to improve and to overcome the mistakes done sometimes when loving. Love is sensitive, spiritual, poetic but also very material. Love needs of love, not only of wanting but of the mutual commitment of surrendering; and here is the advice: Love must be taken care of,  and whenever possible, must be understood or otherwise, accepted because love is the love to the loved person and not always, we understand what this person thinks or feels. Love must support, accompany, participate, collaborate and in good sum, must nourish. Now, it is easier to give advice in what is easy than what is difficult. What is difficult?

The characters, the temperaments, even the culture, the personal dynamic; then, love must always be renovated, actualized; and this has a name: Affection.
Love must be affectionate, love must be tender, love must be romantic; and love in order to be love, must have tolerance and intelligence. Love does not mean submission, control, extortion, business. Love is generous, ample, explicit, delicate and personal. The loved one is the center of your personal love, to whom, you dedicate your happiness, which you enlarge by recognizing his/her virtues and values, helping to grow, improve and excel. Love requires of thinking, analyzing and understanding about love. This is not slavery and is not adoration. This is to enjoy love, to maintain and increment it.

 Love is nourished by good communication, respect, solidarity, which make love something very special and abundant in possibilities. Love means to improve, is to attract the loved one in a healthy way, giving the best of every moment. Many times, we see how love is hurt, rejected, disillusioned, abandoned, deceived, dead. All this happens because no matter how great is the love, it is also very susceptible and fragile. It must be strengthened in the physical , psychological and spiritual caress.

Love must be generous and not from something that we are going to buy, but this means to give the best of ourselves every day and constantly improving. In which way? By not thinking in myself only, but improving the relationship. It is important to point out that love increases as something natural and not as a show where we have to be super heroes.

We have to be natural, original, sincere and with this conviction, cultivate all the components of love until get strengthened in the spiritual love, which fortifies the bonds of the greatest communication and integration, in those who love each other. Because true love comes from, and always is, in the love of God. This is an actual and attentive process, where we glorify and bless the love that we give and that we receive, every day.

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