I was in a park contemplating the place and suddenly, a discussion started: The noise and shouting were such that I inevitably listened. And there was a female voice saying: "You never understand me, because you never want to, even more, you have never understood me." And a male voice, answered:

"I have always tried, I have always listened, I have always being there for you, making the effort but you do not want to be understood."

"Do you realize that you do not want to understand me? When I say something, when I approach you, trying to explain, you do not want to listen and you just say that you understood. But is not true because when I ask you about what you understood, you tell me the wrong thing. Then, you say that you understand, but no, you do not" She said.

"No, you are wrong, I did understand you but you did not believe me and you thought that I did not understand." He said.

Well, the discussion was senseless, at that point, but I found something that I think is valuable. If you mix, the understanding with the misunderstanding, there will not be understanding. That is the reason that I found that confusion tends to win, in any kind of relationship, which is regrettable.